Noun. A situation where you must choose between two options, but you can only pick one. Sometimes both options are bad, and sometimes both options are good — but either way, choosing one means giving up the other.
- You are offered your dream job in another city, a 6-hour drive from where you live. However, both your and your spouse's family lives here. Will you take your wife/children away from their parents/granparents.
- To keep my job, I have to work more. To keep my wife happy, I need to be home more. I can't do both.
- Two universities have accepted you — one is the best school for your subject, but the other is a nationally renowned university.
- Your best friend has done something illegal. Do you turn him in or look the other way?
- Your daughter is performing at a piano recital at the same time as a very important business meeting. You can only be at one.
- A doctor has two patients who both need an emergency operation, but there is only one operating room available right now.
Critical Dilemmas
Discussion: With a partner, resolve the dilemmas.
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A building is on fire. A firefighter can hear two people calling for help, but from opposite sides of the building. There's only time to reach one. Who do you save?
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During a flood, a rescue boat has room for five more people, but ten people are waiting on a rooftop. The pilot must choose who gets on.
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A field hospital has only one unit of blood left. Two injured soldiers both need it to survive. The doctor must decide who receives it.
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A lifeboat is dangerously overcrowded and sinking slowly. If no one gets off, everyone will drown. If some people get off, the rest will survive. Who decides?
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During an earthquake, a mother is trapped in a collapsed building with her two children. She can only shield one of them from the falling debris.
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A surgeon has two patients who each need a new heart to survive, but only one donor heart is available. One patient is a 10-year-old child; the other is a 35-year-old parent of three.